I found my son "having personal fun" in his room. How do I stop this?

I found my son "having personal fun" in his room. How do I stop this?

When you say “personal fun" in the privacy of his own room, without any mention of his age, and he's doing so by himself…..😐…..I'm struggling to understand what it is that you're insisting needs to stop.

Do you mean you'd like for him to engage in personal fun with others?

Or a group of others perhaps?

Or that he should engage in such gratification outside of the privacy of his room?

Again just trying to gather some information here because it would be incredibly ignorant to assume you meant you want to somehow stop his desire to have “fun" and attempt to prohibit that natural behavior simply because you don't know how to have a healthy conversation with your child about developmental changes and maturity.

With that being said, why not ask that question instead. I'm sure there are numerous people, myself included, that would be happy to help with ways to productively communicate with your child. It's unfortunate that the only thing you were concerned with though was how to stop the behavior and completely overlooked the opportunity.